Riviera Resort & Spa, Palm Springs - The Palm Springs hotel's gardens and pool look striking against the desert backdrop.
West Street Beach, Laguna Beach - If you are gonna have a Cali wedding, you have to at least consider getting hitched on the beach. The Orange County coastal community's gorgeous waters will make for great wedding photos.
Buena Vista Park, San Francisco - Say "I do" in the U.S.'s most gay-friendly city, San Francisco. While Buena Vista Park doesn't have Golden Gate Park's fame, the 36-acre oasis is in the Haight, where the fight for gay rights began. A wedding here would be a nice nod to the past while taking another step toward equality.
Viceroy, Palm Springs - Luxuriously updated to reflect the Hollywood Regency style popular during the desert's original glamor era, Viceroy Palm Springs resort hotel and spa in Southern California features a full array of luxury accommodations, amenities, and services.
Chateau de Vie, Napa Valley (Calistoga) - Walk out onto the deck
All of these locations are either gay owned & operated or are gay-friendly. There are a bunch of places in California that are open and accepting of gay marriage.